Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Antara Budi dan Diri



Kalau kita tak mampu menyenangkan orang, janganlah sampai menyusahkan pulak kan. Memanglah, tangan yg memberi itu lebih baik dari tangan yang meminta/menerima. Tapi kekadang, terlalu lembut hati pun susah juga, orang sebegini senang di pergunakan orang bila dirinya mudah termakan pujuk. Manusia memang suka menjaga kepentingan diri sendiri, dan memang lumrah manusia pun begitu. Tapi, manusia pun harus ada "senses". Maksudnya, prihatin/ "alert" akan situati dan keadaan orang lain. Janganlah kita sampai menjerat leher orang lain dalam sedar mahupun tidak. 

Betullah kata orang, payah kalau dah termakan budi ni, perasaan terhutang tu selalu menghantui. Hutang budi tak semestinya di bayar dengan duit, boleh juga di balas dengan kudrat, kata-kata yang bernilai, kasih-sayang, air tangan dan sebagainya setakat yang termampu. Duit boleh di cari, kasih sayang tak boleh di jual beli. Kerana duit, sahabat saling melupakan, saling menghianati, saling menindas, saling membunuh. Nauzubillah. Jangan kita memhambakan diri pada duit yang sememangnya indah dimiliki. Cukup sekadar keperluan, banyakkan sedekah untuk menyucikan harta kita, mungkin sebahagian dari hasil pendapatan kita ada "hak" orang lain yang lebih memerlukan. 

Friday, May 25, 2012

Graduation Night

Graduation Night '12

The ladies from Class of 2012
With my junior Edz
 Hana, Wahie and Sab
Syamer and Dato' :P


Happy Graduates! Alhamdulillah, after 5 years of struggle, every single efforts and hardship was paid. May future bring more success and happiness to all of us. 

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Shared birth month

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thanks for the flowers.. 




lilac-fragrance-candle
his birthday :)

homemade dinner

Saturday, March 10, 2012

When the sunshine strike da mood :D





p/s: dis is how u mix and match when u have limited clothes during vacation..tehee...

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Don't read if you are hungry!

Salam & Hello,

So last week was my last FreezeFest. No more FreezeFest for me but I did enjoyed it to the fullest. Got a lot of free stuffs which really makes my day. Who on earth will refuse FREE things right? I was patiently waited in a long line just to have the FREE snow globe, ice-crystal, photos and etc.
pavlova mashi

Oh yeah, I did entered a Dessert bake-off competition. I tried to make Pavlova for the third time before entering the competition. Was quite confident with myself but I guess other's deserved better to win. Whatever it is, I'm satisfied at least I tried! it was my first dessert competition after all. Thank you so much to my support system. Each and everyone of you who came that night were very appreciated.

I guess my frustration was healed with the fact that Mysa won the Global Unification for the third time. Congratz to all!! :D almost lost my voice that night caused I shouted like crazy. You sure can't control yourself when other people were shouting to the max to support their team! MYSA!! MYSA!!  :0

Oh, I was bored.. regardless of those assignments and report, I choose to bake! hahahaa.. Yeah, so random. yet that is what I always do.. baking and cooking when I am so busy, stressed out and bored. Its my therapy plus shopping as well! hehe.. Tonight I baked moist chocolate cake for the first time from scratch. Just try my luck and it works..Alhamdulillah... :) Achievement unlocked!
my 1st moist choc cake! :)

lovelies
See ya! till next post. Take care. Salam

Friday, January 13, 2012

When it speaks

I, is always jealous of those whose gonna end their single life soon.. 
Oh time..move faster plis.
 
from: my heart.

I wish i can wear something like this later..or soon...(but with a complete tudung)
(Pengaruh citer "Say Yes to the Dress")

Saturday, January 7, 2012

Tips mendidik anak dr Ustaz Don.

model cilik: Haqullah :)
  •  Kalau mak ayah kata "Jangan!"  (kepada anak-anak), mak ayah pun jangan buat. Contoh: Kalau ayah kata baca buku pada masa yang tertentu, smua orang dalam rumah kena baca buku, termasuk mak ayah. 
  • TV ditempatkan di dapur  supaya kurang selesa nak tengok tv. (xde tv kat ruang tamu pun).Tv tutup pukul 10 malam. Smua masuk tido, tak de siapa boleh tengok tv.
  • Ibu mengandung: Doakan anak dalam kandungan (Ya Allah, semoga anak ini akan jadi fi sabilillah!) .Datuk Nabi Isa mendoakan dapat anak fi sabilillah, lahir Maryam, lahir cucu baginda (Nabi Isa). Termakbul doa.
  • Semua ahli keluarga makan di meja makan (whoever you are), tunggu smua orang ada di meja makan.Bincang isu agama di meja makan, dalam family (isu solat for example).
  • Anak-anak dahagakan perhatian, jangan menafikan mereka. Esok-esok, akan ada barrier dengan anak-anak. Nabi dukung anak baginda, hassan & hussin. Masa berkhutbah nabi berhenti berkhutbah, dukung anak-anak baginda dan teruskan berhutbah.  
  • Kita kerja kt luar utk memenuhi "real job" kita kat rumah iaitu membesarkan anak-anak menjadi khalifah. Bukan sebaliknya.
  • Tak kan jumpa orang jahat dengan orang baik. Seorang pelacur yang sudah insaf jatuh hati kepada Imam Hasan al-Banna, Imam Hassan tidak mahu kahwin dengan beliau, katanya "takkan jumpa orang jahat dengan orang baik".
  •  Sebaik-baik sedekah ialah, belanja ahli keluarga kamu makan. Jangan kedekut dengan keluarga.
  • Doa ibu bapa paling mustajab (senang dimakbulkan oleh Allah).
Wallahua'lam.. sekadar rumusan ringkas. Untuk lebih faham n ade "feel"
boleh refer link ni : Ustaz Don Daniyal

Surrounded by love

January 7th 2012:

Dear Diary,

I felt so much love today from people around me. From the one i know the most until the one i know the least, each every one of them make me feel alive. After three weeks living in my own private world. This is the first time I met a lot of people at the same time, having good conversation, catching up with friends plus, make new friend. (a bonus).

The noise, the chattering voice, the smiles, the laugh, the marvelous foods, the characters. All negative thoughts seems vanish away, the moments all the good feeling mix together. awwhh.. i may sound exaggerated, but that is what i felt inside me. Thank you everyone, you made my day more than you ever knew.

Taking some space here to show some appreciation to those with beautiful heart, your gifts are sincerely appreciated. Million thanks to Fadh (for the yellow Vegas t-shirt), to anakanda Waheeda (for the-cute-snow globe), to erin (for the makan2) see you next time erin. much love!!!

p/s: Achievement unlocked: successfully make kuih ketayap for the first time :D
baju baru dr Forever21 dh smpai! yeay..hihihi.. (iklan)

peace y'all!

Friday, January 6, 2012

CV vs Resume

In order to satisfy the writing requirement for Departmental of Biological Sciences, I need to have all those in list: 

  1. Resume
  2. Cover letter
  3. Laboratory Research Notebook
  4.  Laboratory Report
Certain company might ask for CV instead of resume. In Europe, the Middle East, Africa, or Asia, employers may expect to receive a curriculum vitae. In the United States, a curriculum vitae is used primarily when applying for academic, education, scientific or research positions. It is also applicable when applying for fellowships or grants.

So, What is CV??

CV stand for Curriculum Vitae, an overview of a person's experience and other qualifications.  
 Differences between a resume and a curriculum vitae (CV):
  • the length
  • what is included 
  • what each is used for. 
A resume : two page summary of your skills, experience and education ( brief and concise ) no more than a page or two.
Curriculum Vitae : longer (at least two page) and more detailed synopsis. It includes a summary of your educational and academic backgrounds as well as teaching and research experience, publications, presentations, awards, honors, affiliations and other details.

Need help to do your resume and CV? here's some links that i found very helpful. May this help you as well.
p/s: So I would suggest for graduating student, we should prepare both resume and cv for future use. Best of luck.

Monday, January 2, 2012

How to start loving...

Hating someone??
Always feel annoyed when you see his/her face?
Feel like running away from all of them??
Never wanted to live a life with them around?

Dear dirty heart....
  • Try to remember his/her good deeds towards you.
  • Think of his/her face with a sweet smile on it.
  • Remember of the fun time you spend with him/her.
  • Think of the reason why you both become friends at the first place.
  • Look at the positive side of him/her and all the advantages that they have. 
  • Remember the moments when he/she greets you warmly.
  • Think of the memories when you shared your laugh and tears with them.

Insya'Allah... all those negative thinking will slowly faded away..
keep trying, i know it's not easy.. yet it's not impossible.
(a message for self)
Learn to love, then you will be loved.
Friendship last forever till Jannah.

Shmoo Loves NY


Cuteness overload!!!! :D
p/s: he's so hugable!! the shirt is his from now on. hahha...

Entry pedas. Beware!

Peristiwa 1. Kerana Ego.
Memohon maaf secara umum, sedangkan kita tahu kita ada buat salah pada individu tertentu. Tapi disebabkan ego dan mungkin juga rasa malu. Sekadar ambil syarat memohon maaf. Sungguh tidak nampak keikhlasan disebalik kemaafan itu. Face your mistake and fix it bro!


Peristiwa 2. Merajuk tak bersebab.
Kalau terang jelas orang ada buat hati kita terguris, terluka, tak kira lah dari segi percakapannya atau perbuatannya sekalipun, maka adalah logik diterima akal jika kita merajuk dan berjauh hati. Tapi, yang bikin panas nya...bila takda angin takda ribut, tetiba ekau tarik muncung, palingkn muka, senyum apatah lagi jauh sekali la kan. Eh..eh.. apekehell? Biarlah kalau nak merajuk tu bersebab dik oii, ini tidak. Buat orang naik rimas je. Dah tak pasal-pasal orang tu dapat dosa duk assume apeke sebab la muncung ekau panjang sedepa tidak semeta-meta. sedeyhh.

Peristiwa 3: Kedekut taik idung masin.
Hemmm..malas nak komen panjang-panjang, sape yang terasa tu..haa hamik kau! hahaha...
Hidup ni kalau tak reti nak memberi,  jangan harap la nak hidup senang. Tak berkat pun kesenangan tu kalau jiran sebelah dalam kesusahan/kelaparan sedang engkau tidur dalam kekenyangan. Fikir-fikirkan lah. Cuba lah belajar menghargai benda-benda kecik yang orang buat untuk kita kalau ekau tu RETI BERSYUKUR.

Adios~ zaaasss.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Pantang Tok Nenek Aku..

Kalau....
  • Makan tapi membazir .
Contoh: makan drumstick tapi tinggalkan cebisan-cebisan isi. Ngap mana yang senang nk gigit je pastu buang.Amboii.. ko tak reti syukur ke? Orang lain makan nasi dengan budu je, tak merasa pun makan ayam macam kau. Tak reti-reti nak hargai rezeki depan mata?
  •  Rajin tapi pemalas.
Sample:  Alkisah anak dara sunti yang manis lagi ayu, time depan lelaki/rumah orang lain kemain lagi, rajin mengalahkan segala rakyat jelata. Semua nak di sentalnya, termasuk la bontot kuali yang dh berkerak tu. Rajin kau nyah.. Tapi, kat rumah sendiri, ewaaahh pinggan mangkuk ekau main campak-campak je dalam sinki. Paling tak tahan tu, di timbun-timbun sampai berkulat baru nk sental. Itu pun kalau sental la kan, bila dah abis smua stok bekas nak makan nasik.. sedehh!
  • Cakap tak serupa bikin.
Example: Haa! En. Ulau ni time bercakap/kempen, kemain lagi, sejuta list of the rules and regulation, "do's and don'ts" , cukup seminggu dia la dulu yang buat onar. Do's and don'ts entah kemana, rules apatah lagi. Dah hilang semua undang-undang bersama airliur yang bersembur-sembur tatkala berkempen. Double sedehh! Putar alam ni silap hari bulan makan kaki! 
  • Berhutang reti, bayar tak reti.
Once upon a time: Ini kes sedara jauh (malas nak ngaku sedara). Time nak pinjam duit, jumpa cari jalan ke rumah, merayu-rayu mintak pinjam duit, janji nak bayar ansur-ansur. Pinjam bukan takat seratus dua, nak grand aje, kalau tak ribu riban tak sah. Alih-alih dah dekat setengah abad, satu sen pun tak bayar, ansuran ke mana, batang hidung kemana. Nak carik jalan ke rumah pun dah tak jumpa. (Nanti buncit perut tu, makan duit haramla kau kalau tuan dia tak halalkan).
  • Muka cantik, jamban berkulat.
Alkisah:  Ini lagi spesies yang tak tahan mata melihat smpai bernanah2. Time melaram kemain, mekap pat lima inci, tudung lilit2 sampai terbelit, wangi semerbak kasturi. hahaha. Ok fine, tak kesah pun nak melaram, sbb nk jaga personaliti diri...gituh. Tapi yang sedeh nya, kalau tengok toilet/jamban dia, perghh berlumut hijau akak ckp..huhu. Bilik tak yah cakap ah, sama je lelaki ke ppuan. Yuckk! Biar la balance kecantikan dan kebersihan dalaman dan luaran. Gituh. 

p/s: Biar buruk rupa asal toilet bowl berkilat. hahaha.
Peace y'all!! Bling! Bling!
pic from: http://aquirkyblog.com/2011/07/page/2/

Azam tahun baru 2012!!

Ice rink at Manhattan square!
Okay kawan2, ini entry khas untuk peringatan kepada diri sendiri di masa hadapan (gituu)

Azam aku tahun ni ada banyak, mudah-mudahan aku mampu lah laksanakan kalau tak semua pun sedaya yang termampu. :)

Azam akhirat semata..
  • Nak tingkatkan keSABARan dalam diri. Sebab aku selalu tewas dengan hasutan syaitan dan slalu kalah dalam mengawal nafsu ammarah.sobs3. (pasni kalo korg wat sakit ati aku pun, aku nk senyum n gelak je,insya'Allah) nk ikut sunnah nabi..sabar selalu. tehee :)
  • Nak KHATAM quran sebelum balik mesia.chaiyok2!! 
  • Tak nak ponteng SOLAT. (termasuk overslept n malas) buruk perangai noe...
  • Nak puasa sunat at least seminggu sekali.
Fireworks mcm kromosom! :)

Azam Duniawi semata. :D
  • Nak belajar MASAK macam-macam lagi sebelum menjejaki alam perkahwinan. Terutamanya belajar bake mcm2 jenis kek.
  • Nak aim 4.00 flat untuk quarter-quarter depan. Supaya cerah sikit masa depan kalau nak apply grad school.
  • Nak SAVING banyak2. hihi. Nak tawen pakai banyak duit woo.
  • Nak beli satu handbag COACH yang mature sket. (ni bole dikira azam ke? ) kih3. Nti nk pakai time gi temuduga ke hape.ahaks. 
  • Nak kurangkan nangis sebab selalu sakit hati. Nak jadi lebih TABAH dan kental :) mcm dia.
  • Nak kurus!!!!!!! tp camane~pg gym pun malas. =_="
  • Nak EXPLORE downtown Rochester before grad!
  • Nak main ICE-SKATING sekurangnya sekali lagi sebelum balik mesia.hihi..skill pun dh berkarat ni.
Cantik sangat..subhanallah.

p/s: nak dgr ceramah ustaz azhar idrus sempena new year. mesti best.
ktorg smbut new year kt downtown rochester, best la jugak! dan kami sambut our 1st anniversary also!
Happy New Year folks and Happy Anniversary sayang.. (dh 3tahun kita kwn, bila nk official ni?) haha.
Happy New Year everyone!